From April 26th to 30th I went to the regional round square conference in South Africa. The conference took place at the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls (OWLAG), which was located near Johannesburg. A number of schools from around Africa were attending this conference, around 6 people coming from each school. However, only Alexa and I were representing ISK - as we are a new school to Round Square. Mrs Nicholas came to the conference as well, and Mr Blanchard was with us for the weekend.
The theme of the conference was Isivivane - leave your mark. Isivivane is a Zulu word that means 'throw your stones upon the pile'. This is basically saying that we all need to be unified and act as one, respecting those around us and working together (using the round square IDEALS). This was a nice theme for the conference, as it created a platform of sorts for the range of people, from a variety of different backgrounds, who were to make individual contributions to the conference and become unified throughout our week together.
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| View of Kilimanjaro from the plane on the way to SA! |
We were encouraged and motivated to stick to these various ideals through a conference song! The OWLAG girls put together a conference song that we sung when we met up together and which was very good for stimulating inspiration amongst the delegates (I can personally vouch for its potency in this regard!).
Conference Song:
I-S-I-V-I-V-A-N-E
Isivivane!
I am here
You are here
We've got each other
Leaving a mark of change
It's a brand new day
A day for change
New bonds created
You got to be excited!
RAP
You gotta be the change
Let's come together 'coz we've got spark
Doesn't matter where we're from
Just leave your mark
Clap once; clap twice, one and two.
Ignite, Unite
We've got the spirit of Ubuntu
Isivivane
I said M-A-R-K, leave your mark
Collaborate, innovate the time is now
Everybody be excited
We've got new bonds created
It's a day for change
It's a brand new day
Everybody be excited
(it's a brand new day)
We've got new bonds created
(it's a brand new day)
It's a day for change
(it's a brand new day)
It's a brand new day!
ISIVIVANE, Leave your mark
It's a - it's a time for change (x3)
I-S-I-V-I-V-A-N-E
ISIVIVANE!
I wasn't really sure what to expect going into the conference. To be honest, I wasn't sure what Round Square really was originally and I was confused as to what activities we could carry out. I was also really nervous as sometimes find it hard to open up to people, and I was afraid that I wouldn't really make friends. However, I was also really excited to be learning more about the organisation. I'd never been to Johannesburg before, and I was curious as to what it would be like. I promised myself to put 100% of my effort into the conference, so that I could get 100% out of it.
DAY 1:
On the first day I was extremely
nervous, but also really excited to see what the conference would be like.We
met at school at 5:45 to go to the airport, and the flight and transport to the
school all went as planned. When we arrived in South Africa we realised that
there were some other students from Kenya there for the conference as well, and
it was nice talking to them in the airport before we left. Everyone was really
friendly and open, and I felt more confident about the conference. The bus ride
was around an hour long, and when we arrived I was blown away by the school. It
was one of the most beautiful campus' I have ever seen - there were so many
lovely benches and pavillions to sit and work in, and everything was so green
and vibrant. The facilities were also of very good quality - we could
definitely tell that it was an Oprah Winfrey school! We headed straight for the
registration area. We got a bag (in the picture) that had a waterbottle, hat,
and other items in it. I found out that I was in baraza 14 and in a different
dorm room from Alexa. I was really worried about this originally, but I think
that the fact that we were separated was very beneficial for us. I definitely
made more friends than I would've if I had been with Alexa the whole
conference. I was, in fact, really happy that I was pushed out of my comfort
zone during these five days. After we had settled into our dorm rooms and looked around we met for some ice breakers on the field. We were divided into our barazas for the first time and then did various activities together (such as travelling across the field with only a few feet and hands touching the ground). I really liked my baraza, there were a lot of people that were a bit quiet (like myself) but who opened up a lot as time went by. Everyone at the conference that I had met thus far was so open and accepting of one another, and I loved the atmosphere. I already knew that I was going to make some firm friends.
After the teambuilding activities were finished we had dinner and went to bed.
DAY 2:
On Sunday we all woke up and headed down to breakfast. The cafeteria was huge and the food was amazing! Throughout our time at the conference the meals never failed to impress, and I was blown away by how pristine everything was at OWLAG. After breakfast came the opening ceremony - we were introduced to Mr Melvin King, the head of OWLAG, who gave a speech to open the ceremony. He spoke about the IDEALS and the theme of the conference, reminding us that we would get a lot out of the conference if we put in a lot, but only a little if we put in a little. I thought this was very important, as it is such a wasted opportunity if you don't put all of yourself into an event like this. I was even more determined to give the conference my all and truly make it a memorable and life changing experience.
After the opening ceremony was concluded we took our conference photo in our orange and green tshirts. I already felt that we were all connected and that the conference was going to be amazing! It was definitely a good start to the event.
There was a short break after the conference photo, and then we all met in the auditorium for our first keynote adress. The keynote speaker was Emma Sadleir, a media law consultant and speaker based in Johannesburg. She does a lot of work with schools and universities, educating parents and pupils on the responsible use of social media, as well as working with teachers tackling issues such as cyberbullying and pornography in schools. She's been an anchor for the Oscar Pistorius trial, as well as a regular guest on radio and television. She spoke to us about the dangers of social media - the fact that nothing you do on the internet is temporary, it can always be found. She shared various stories about children around our age, and older, that have made serious mistakes by misusing social media. I think that everyone listening was extremely impacted by what she said, as we are all so fully integrated in the virtual world. Not only did she warn us about what we directly say and do, but she also told us that if we become part of a chain (advertising something) we can also be impacted. Everybody at the conference left with a new awareness, and I think that we all understand what we have access to now, and what it is capable of doing. Social media is an extremely effective way to spread messages - you can very easily send a positive idea, but it is just as easy to send a negative one. One must know the difference between what is right and wrong, and the implications that a mistake may hold.
| A painting above the auditorium |
After Emma Sadleir spoke we had our first baraza. Baraza groups met in different classrooms, and we sat in our groups and discussed what we had witnessed thus far in the conference. We reflected upon social media for the majority of the time, and we all spoke about what we personally had experienced in this realm. Someone in my baraza talked about a friend that had inappropriately used the messaging tool on facebook and been reported to their school and expelled. I think that our eyes were definitely opened, and we began to realise just how powerful twitter, tumblr, facebook and the many other websites that are so popular today are. After we spoke about the keynote talk we did some more icebreakers and said what we thought of the conference thus far. Most of us were already really enjoying it, and I know that I had already gained a fresh perspective.
After the baraza we had lunch and then headed out onto the field for some teamwork activities. We played various team sports, like volleyball, soccer and dodgeball, and then worked on sending messages with flags. These activities really helped us to get closer as a baraza group and feel more comfortable in the conference.
When we had finished, we had our second keynote speaker. Melvin king, the head of the school, spoke to us about the importance of building relationships within community service. He reminded us that service projects should be sustainable, and that you should work WITH people, instead of merely handing them items and stepping back to see the result. I thought this was very important, as at ISK there are certain groups that have neglected to form stable projects. Both sides involved in the service benefit far more greatly when you are getting to know each other, learning and taking away from different worldviews and upbringings. Melvin King also spoke about superiority and inferiority in community service. He told us that it is important not to feel that you are superior to those you are helping, and, when they feel they are inferior, to keep pressing forward to overcome this barrier. His experience as a teacher has allowed him to witness this building of relationships and to identify what works and what doesn’t. He told us about his elementary classes and their attempts and creating service projects – they encountered problems with the sustainable and interactive aspect of the service, and he pushed them until they overcame this issue. Melvin King definitely made an impact on me, especially as I am taking over ARTSCO this coming year. I had already been aware of some of what he was talking about, but he definitely clarified things for me.
There was another baraza after this keynote speech, and we reviewed what we had learnt. We talked about the service projects at our own schools and I was very surprised at the lack of service projects in certain schools. Some members of my baraza said that there were only one or two community service opportunities at their schools, and none of them said that they had a CAS program. This came as a shock to me, as I’d always assumed that other schools around Africa were just as involved with the community as we are. I felt proud to be part of ISK, and I was glad that the other delegates were inspired by Melvin King and determined to start more projects.
We then all had hot chocolate and went to bed.
DAY 3:
| Our dorm room |
Once the Generation Earth activities were done we boarded the bus for our second trip at 1:00. We were going to Suikerbosrand, a game park of sorts, where we would carry out various activities in our barazas. Activities consisted of:
- Water testing
- Biking
- Cow milking
- Bread Baking
- Rock climbing
- Rafting
We first did the
cow milking and bread baking, which took place on a small farm museum. It was
really fun getting into these activities, as not many of us had done them
before. I had personally milked a cow once before here in Kenya, but it was
still awesome getting to do it again. The bread baking was done using an
outdoor oven and I really enjoyed the rustic feel of everything. We then did rock climbing at the farm as well. We all got a turn to climb up a large wall, safely strapped in with helmets. It wasn’t the tallest climbing wall I’ve ever been on, but it was fun nonetheless. We all cheered for each other as we climbed, and then posed at the top for a photo! It was really nice seeing everyone being encouraged, especially as some of our baraza members were really scared of heights.
We then headed down for the rafting. We were supplied with a reasonably large raft and a small one (trailing behind it). We were told that all 7 of our group members had to go in the first canoe, whilst the last waited on the other side of the lake to be connected in the smaller canoe. It was definitely a challenge fitting everyone in the canoe! It flooded a little bit and there were only two paddles! I sat and helped paddling, and we finally made it there and back again (only getting a little bit wet!). One member of our baraza actually got out and started pulling the canoe at the end, greeted by raucous cheers from the rest of the group! It was definitely a very fun activity.
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| The beautiful campus |
Suikerbosrand was one of the best trips we did the entire conference, I loved getting to see a little more of South Africa while at the same time getting to know my baraza members better. Being put in a situation where we were a little out of place and nervous brought us together and by the end of the day we were really comfortable with each other.
When we got back to OWLAG we moved immediately into an interactive drumming session (a drum cafĂ©) in the auditiorium. There were about 5 members in the drumming team, all who were extremely enthusiastic and friendly. When we came into the auditorium there was a drum waiting on each seat, and we put it between our legs and drummed together. They repeated various beats and we copied them, and it came together to form a surging seething mass of frenzied energy and excitement. I could feel the floor pounding with the beat of the drums, and the smiles and bright eyes of everyone around me were contagious. I got really into the drumming, and by the end I had no reservations at all. It was one of the most amazing experiences of the conference – I have never experienced so much positive energy and intense and eager enjoyment in one place before. Near the end of the session people were coming up and dancing with the drummers, and we wrapped up with everybody coming down onto the stage and dancing together.
We were all really tired after Suikerbosrand and the drumming, so we were slightly relieved to be allowed some free time and some time to eat dinner. Afterwards, all wrapped up in warm clothes, we headed back to the auditorium though for …. the talent show! It was entitled ‘Africa’s got Talent’ and consisted of members of the various schools performing for the rest of the delegates. The acts ranged from singing to poetry and even to skits! Unfortunately, Alexa and I hadn’t been able to put together an act in time, but we really enjoyed watching everyone. The acts all reflected the culture of the countries, and I especially enjoyed a school from Jordan performing a poem in a variety of different languages (to reflect their internationalism). Two girls also did some Indian dancing, which was incredible. After we finished we did some more dancing and then went to the dorms for bed.
DAY 4:
| Guinea fowls grazing on the frosty morning campus! |
When we arrived at the site we were greeted by the leader of the project, Rose Thamae, a kindly old South African woman. She told us her story – she had been gang raped at a young age and infected with HIV/AIDS. She had struggled with this illness for quite a while, but then suddenly picked herself up and adopted a new outlook on life. Filled with determination and strength she had returned to Orange Farm to help those similarly diagnosed with this condition. She founded ‘Let Us Grow’, and educated them on the prevention of HIV/AIDS and the treatment once diagnosed as positive. She now has a centre within the community in order to help those in need of support. The centre is a key actor in addressing HIV and AIDS through home-based care, counselling and education to men, women, youth and children. Rose was an intrinsically kind woman, and I felt honoured to help her paint her centre.
We painted for around 3 hours, and I did the chicken shed as well as the logo on the main house. We finished a little early but we used the extra time to pack up everything really well. While we painted the members of the group sang songs together, and we chatted with the men who worked for the organisation. There was a real sense of community, and you could see how close everyone was when some kids came running in and we all started to play and take photos with them together.
I think that this project is extremely inspirational – I think the strength of Rose is unbelievably noble and righteous. She has been so brave, and I love what she is trying to promote within her community. It goes to show that you have the ability to make change – it’s all at your fingertips. Be the change that you want to see in the world.
We travelled back to OWLAG after we were done at Orange Farm, going straight into some keynote addresses! First was a twenty minute address by Jordan van der Walt, a 13 year old student at a school in South Africa.After viewing a documentary in March of 2011 about how children in SA go to school hungry on a daily basis, return home and still have nothing to eat, Jordan, who was only 10 at the time, decided that he was going to take measures to do something about it. Every year, his school collected easter eggs to give to impoverished children, and though this was a sweet idea the food had no nutritional quality to it. He approached his headmaster and proposed that they bring a bag of maize meal instead of eggs. The headmaster agreed and the “JUST ONE BAG” initiative was begun. Jordan has been interviewed by radio stations and journalists alike, and his story is extremely inspirational for me. I love how a small child can reach out and truly make an impact on his community, changing numerous lives through his passion. Jordan told us that service must come from the heart, and he stressed this point throughout his presentation. His dedication and commitment made me determined to find a way to start my own project at school. All of the resources are at your fingertips, you must only find a way to use them effectively. I want desperately to find a way to help the KSPCA and animals of Kenya and Jordan made me realise that I can. There are such good people in this world, and we are all capable of leaving our mark. ISIVIVANE!
The next speaker was Robyn Folkard. Robyn is part of the project Harambee, a non-profit company that was established to address the entry-level labour supply and demand mismatch and promote the employment of youth. It takes in unemployed youth, with no prior experience, and trains them so that they can be placed in entry level jobs. Harambee has significant and long-term imipacts on the labor market, as well as the quality of life of many individuals. I thought that this project was very useful, targeting a key issue in the world today. However, there was some debate as to whether they should’ve focused on the core of the issue – education of youth. If the youth are appropriately educated then there would not be such drastic unemployment in the first place. Nevertheless, Harambee is definitely making positive change within South Africa. I liked the fact that these unemployed youngsters are offered a new change to a prosperous life, despite their unfortunate economic circumstances.
| Conference Song |
After Dr Sooliman’s talk we had our last baraza meeting. We all met and came up with our conference statement. The statement spoke about the necessity of viewing all human life as being equal, and leaving your mark in the world today. In our baraza we reviewed what we had learnt throughout the course of the conference, and wrapped up with a small game. I spoke about how Dr Sooliman had inspired and changed me in his keynote speech, and how I was more empowered than ever to return to Kenya and make my mark. I truly believe that this conference was one of the most amazing and life changing experiences that I have ever had. I am so grateful to have been able to attend this event, and I know I’ll never forget it.
DAY 5:
The closing ceremony was carried out in the morning, and we had the OWLAG dance group perform a series of amazing dances for us. Their dances spoke of the history of South Africa, for instance they had one where they were dressed as slaves, another with Nelson Mandela in the background, and the last with them all dressed in South African colors. Mr Melvin King gave a very heartwarming speech afterwards, and everybody teared up a little bit. After the conference was officially closed we sang the conference song one last time and then headed out to say our goodbyes. Everybody was crying and hugging each other and I really really didn’t want to leave. I had made such strong friendships and seen and heard so many fantastic things. However, as I said goodbye to everyone I knew that we would never really be disconnected from each other.
The round square
conference was life-changing in so many ways. I learnt how to be more of a
leader and team player, and gained a new insight into my own strengths and
weaknesses as a person. I feel that one of my strengths is my passion for
animal rights and other global issues and my drive to make change, whilst my
weakness up to this point has been juggling schoolwork with CAS. I really want
to make time to start up a project and make my mark in the Kenyan community. My
goal in this coming year is to do just that, whether it is through my
leadership position in ARTSCO or through another branch of service. I am
definitely ready to accept new challenges and roles, this conference has taught
me that there’s no need to be shy or feel as if you don’t deserve to make
yourself heard. Being part of round square and seeing how accepting and kind
people are when following the IDEALS has helped me so much – I really want to
help promote democracy and the other IDEALS within ISK, and I’m thinking of
running for a leadership position in the round square group. I want the quiet
and less extroverted people in the school, like myself, to be able to take on
leadership roles and prove themselves. I feel like the system is bias towards
the louder people, and after the conference I understand that we are all filled
with so much potential and drive. We all deserve a chance to make change. The
round square conference definitely made me more confident and prompted me to be
more outspoken. Thank you so much to everyone who took part in the conference
and who made it possible for me to attend it![hopefully more photos coming soon]










